SLOW MOTION MORNING. Last night after homework, a bike ride, playtime with friends, outside until the fading light, and a slow-cooked beef for dinner… my son went to bed happy, and asked: “can you wake me up super-early and pretend we’re very late for school so I jump out of bed? And then we’ll be early. And then we’ll have more time. I like our slow mornings together.” Heck yeah! What a fun and silly way to shake things up this morning and to make room for JOY. Amazing what one small change can do. Go on, Good Girl, get your SLOW MO on!
Squash ROCKS. Squash is delightful and so easy to prepare. Cut it in half and lay it face down on a baking tray lined with parchment paper coated with organic coconut oil. Bake on low [250* F] and forget about it for a while as you get some chores done around the house. When it's cooked through scoop out the seeds and then scrape out the delicious insides. Add it to soups, curries or just eat it on its own. YUM.
Squash does not have to be cooked immediately - it can be stored for up to three months without losing its nutritional value. It is fat free, saturated fat free, sodium free, and cholesterol free, but the really good news is that it is an excellent source of Vitamin A and a good source of Vitamin C. Talk about The A Team!!!
These two vitamins - A and C - when joined together are ready to kick ass when it comes to protecting our cells. Vitamin A keeps skin and mucous membrane cells healthy and that means they are more resistant to fighting off cancers and diseases caused by viruses. Vitamin C acts as a natural antihistamine when fighting colds and allergies; aids in collagen production; has anti-oxidant properties that fight against cancer and protects cells from damage and mutation; and best of all, it helps to keep our eyes and hearts healthier so we can see and feel the beauty that is all around us. WOWZA! We all Gotta’ Delicata!!!
Kelly Dorfman, MS, LND [aka The Nutrition Detective] has written a really handy book, Cure Your Child with Food, that reveals the hidden connection between nutrition and childhood ailments. It offers up solutions to a long list of things your child might be going through … Picky Eating, Reflux, Stomachache, Ear infections, Failure to grow, Constipation, Rashes, Sleeplessness, Mood disorder, ADHD and SPD, Hyperactivity, Dyspraxia, and more.
Your child might not suffer from any of the above, but every parent should get their hands on a copy of this book. Read it and refer to it regularly because Kelly Dorfman’s approach teaches parents new ways to look at and interpret outward symptoms presented by your child. Even if the symptoms are not severe, it’s good to know what the clues could mean. She also guides parents towards ways to communicate more effectively with your child’s doctors. Above all, her book offers up some simple, yet profound solutions to common problems that when left untreated can grow into much larger ones.
Take for example one of the most common questions Dorfman receives - what to do about a picky eater? This question is so often brushed off with a “she’s fine” or worse, blaming parents for over-indulging their children. Dorfman advises a parent not to worry, but to do something about it. Gather information and make a plan because...
“A child who restricts herself to eating an empty-calorie, low nutrient diet [often made up of pasta, bread, cheese, French fries, sweets, and other bland comfort foods] is not getting enough nutrients to grow and develop optimally. Because these kids rely on high-starch, high-fat foods that often lack essential nutrients and the bonus healing substances found in fruits, vegetables, fish, and whole grains, they can tend toward moodiness, irritability and fatigue…[and]…they can become easily overwhelmed, sleep poorly, and not perform up to physical or academic potential.” [pg. 35]
Apart from making kids irritable and the insufferable drama and stress it causes for everyone at every meal, Picky Eating can be a signal of an underlying medical condition such as reflux and colon impaction or dairy intolerance. There are many variables to consider when getting to the root of your child’s problem [medical, physical, emotional, behavioral, all of the above] so each case needs to be figured out individually. Dorfman teaches parents how to be "nutritional detectives" and offers up easy-to-follow case studies and flags clues along the way.
In the case of Picky Eating, Dorfman tells us about Tom, whose mood swings went from “wonderful to evil in a nanosecond.” By following Tom's clues, Dorfman gives the reader an example of how parents can become familiar with the “detective process.” Here are Tom’s clues:
- Tom looked unhealthy and had a history of getting sick frequently [pasty pallor and dark circles under his eyes]
- Of the five medical specialists who had seen Tom, none found a single medical explanation for his sleep problems, irritability, frequent illnesses, and picky eating.
- Tom’s twin sister was fine
- Crazy mood swings. A child who feels bad often acts bad. Children do not have the strong ability to regulate their emotions the way adults do.
- Tom had difficulty sleeping [whatever was bothering him followed him into the night]
At this point I will paraphrase Dorfman’s analysis for you, but I assure you it's far more interesting to read her book. Dorfman doesn’t bang on too long. She’s clear and concise. You won’t yawn or glaze over. Promise.
First, Dorfman puts together crankiness + poor sleep + frequent illness + pasty complexion and ended up with the usual suspect: intolerance of dairy protein. [nb, few people have every symptom of intolerance so it is not significant that Tom did not have bowel issues or eczema].
80% of protein in milk is casein, a protein that is difficult for many to digest. As it irritates the lining of the digestive track, the body soothes the irritant by producing mucus. If mucus is produced in response to dairy then the body becomes a perfect breeding ground for bacteria and viruses. Germs are everywhere, but Dorfman points out that if you “offer them a welcoming growth medium [mucus], poor sleeping patterns, and a lousy diet” then those germs become yet another illness. She adds that when you’re stuffed up and your entire digestive and respiratory systems are lined with mucus, food doesn’t smell or taste good.
She suggested that Tom’s mom take out dairy completely and that she give Tom a calcium and multivitamin supplement for 6 weeks. Dorfman did not suggest adding milk alternatives because kids don’t like them and they offer little nutritional value. In one week, two things changed for Tom almost immediately: 1) his appetite had increased and he was eating more red meat and chicken and 2) his sleep improved and he became calmer with fewer outbursts.
If your child is a picky eater, then she is not getting a balanced diet and needs to change her habits. Dorfman wisely advocates trial and error in order to discover an irritant in disguise. It’s all part of her approach to being your child’s nutrition detective, learning how to pick up on clues, and taking control of meals to make sure your child is getting the nutrients she needs. If you think your child is a picky eater, then Dorfman lists some questions to ask in order to find valuable clues that you can then share with your doctor:
- Does your child lack vitality?
- Does your child look sickly or unhealthy?
- Is your child moody or overly sensitive?
- Does your child eat a mostly white diet – bread, pasta, crackers, white cheese?
- Do you find yourself wondering in the morning if this will be a “good” day or a “bad” day?
- Does your child complain that many foods taste or smell funny?
- Is your child unable to eat foods or dishes that are mixed, such as meat loaf, or salad with various vegetables included?
- Are mealtimes stressful because of food negotiating/refusal?
- Do you have to prepare a separate dinner for your child most nights?
Parenthood is not a straight line and sometimes, it can get pretty darned complicated. Cure Your Child with Food is a really helpful tool for parents as they work their way through a child’s health issues and learn to interpret the clues a child sends out. A child who feels bad often acts bad and that’s about the best reason to reach for this book and get to the bottom of whatever ails our children.
What's in your kid's school lunch box? If some one asked me that question right now I could probably give an informed answer thanks to the recently launched Environmental Working Group's Food Scores. It's a helpful website that allows you to search over 80,000 foods that have been rated on a scale of 1-10 [1 being healthiest]. I recently tested some of the regular staples I feed my 9 year old son and started with his lunch box. While my scores weren't bad, there is always room for improvement. Here's why...
My son loves it when I pack my home-made, organic guacamole or salsa in his lunch box, along with chips. The ingredients I pick for the guacamole and salsa are all healthy and organic, but how healthy are the chips I serve with it?
Food Should Taste Good makes yummy Blue Corn Chips and they are a regular house-hold item but gosh darn it, they only scored 4.5. That's a disappointing score after putting all the time, effort and extra cost into making my own organic salsa or guacamole.
I wanted to find a chip with a better score. The EWG site makes it sooooo easy to "shop around" and offers comparisons to encourage healthier choices. I discovered that Way Better Black Bean Tortilla Chips [equally yummy] score a healthier 3.0. The healthiest score of 1+ only offers 2 options, and the one with the lowest score of all is not gluten-free.
- A healthy sandwich: Years ago we switched to Food for Life's Ezekial 4:9 a flourless, sprouted whole grain bread. We have never looked back. We alternate between our two favorites - Cinnamon Raisin and Sprouted 7 Grain Bread. Both received great scores, 2.0 and 1.3 respectively. I am sticking with Food for Life, especially now that they've introduced a Gluten Free range that I can enjoy, too.
- Meat: Applegate Uncured Black Forest Ham comes in second place with a 4.0 compared to the top score, a 3.5. We buy sliced, not packaged, organic sandwich meat from the deli counter so I am not sure if that makes a difference? Something to look into.
- Cheese: My boys LOVE cheese. the stinkier the better, but for sandwiches we use packaged Organic Valley Muenster, Organic Valley Raw Jack, or Organic Valley Raw Sharp Cheddar. All three scored 5, beaten only by a 4.5 score from Skinny Cheese Pepper Jack, but that's never going to make the cut in our house. Looks like I need to shop around to find healthier organic cheese options. That surprised me. I thought organic cheese would score higher. The site informed me that typically cheeses don't score very well. Here's what EWG writes about cheese:
Cheese can be a good source of calcium and protein, but a little goes a long way. Cheese usually packs in a lot of calories, saturated fat and sodium in a small amount. In fact, cheese is the number one source of saturated fat, and one of the top sources of both sodium and calories in the American diet (USDA & DHHS 2010). Antibiotics are often used in dairy production, primarily to treat sick animals, which poses a moderate concern for breeding antibiotic resistant bacteria. Milk-boosting hormone injections (rBGH) are injected into about 20 percent of American dairy cows. Neither treatment is allowed in Europe due to public health and animal welfare concerns.
- Fruits and veg: Organic tomatoes, cucumber slices and lightly cooked carrots. Organic apple or some washed organic berries.
- No juice: We invested in a water purifier at home, so it's filtered water from the tap in a BPA free water bottle that supports the school PTO.
- Save the best for last. There's room for a Sweet Treat, too: Ginny Bakes is not listed on the EWG site but it's a favorite in our house. Their products are gluten free, organic, and non-gmo. My husband and son love the Coconut Oatmeal Bliss Cookie. From the packaging, I can clearly read and understand every ingredient listed. Each cookie has 3.5g total fat and 3g total sugar, which when compared to other snack options is not so bad.